

The Critical Question when it Comes to the Inner Critic
This is the most powerful question to cut through the inner critic: “What do I need?” Like any bully, something sets the inner critic...
Aug 17, 20243 min read


Life Doesn't Owe You Anything
I’m on the top of a red rock mesa. Stunted junipers, flowering cliff rose and bright red penstemon, the desert sun. I can’t remember the...
Jun 26, 20232 min read


May the birds of your attention truly land
I'm sitting at the kitchen table again, checking my email, when a mourning dove lands on the railing of the balcony. Now, I know the...
Feb 24, 20235 min read


Believing your life matters
Right around this time a year ago I got slammed by my first full on somatic trauma flashback. I actually pretty much brought it on...
Feb 23, 20234 min read


Love, Me
Sweet sweet girl. Strong one, earnest one, hurting one. Your tears are nectar to me, your tenderness a precious gift, your anxiety and...
Feb 19, 20233 min read


BDSM beyond the bedroom
I've been exploring BDSM ever since my kinkiness came out of the shadow and laid me flat. I watched movies, read, experimented with...
Feb 16, 20235 min read


Entranced by Interbeing & Belonging
Today I offer a hypnotic trance that invites you into a sense of shared sentience with Earth. It is resourcing, relaxing, and...
Feb 12, 20231 min read


The Flow State or being Mystery's Marionette
I couldn't help myself. Of all places, ecstatic dance is probably the most permissive of adults staring. Still, I felt naughty doing it....
Feb 10, 20233 min read


Ecocentric Hypnosis
Perhaps you’ve heard about the passenger pigeon, a creature who has become a sort of poster child for the human proclivity to extinguish...
Feb 6, 20234 min read


A Wrap on Council
Yesterday I wrote a little about the practice of council. The barest bones of a description of council is humans sitting in a circle...
Feb 2, 20234 min read


Seduced by Sun
I am positively obsessed with direct sunlight. It has a power over me, so generous, and deliciously demanding. Sit here and be pleasured....
Jan 23, 20223 min read


I am Earth's submissive
Let me start with a caveat that I know essentially nothing about the field and practice of Dominance and submission. Don't be fooled by...
Jan 16, 202211 min read
